Mind & EverydayFact

Everyone thinks it's wrong. Each believes they're the only one.

In 1993 Prentice and Miller surveyed students about campus drinking. Nearly all believed their peers were far more comfortable with heavy drinking than they were – in fact private attitudes were almost identical. Among men, personal attitudes drifted toward the assumed norm over the semester.

Useful: Before bending to a group norm, ask around: often everyone is silent for the same reason.

Source: en.wikipedia.org

Kommunikation Sozialpsychologie

Difficulty:

Related cards

Your nerves are far less visible than you think.Gilovich, Savitsky and Medvec showed in 1998 that people greatly overestimate how well others can …
How to come across as likeable without talking about yourself.Huang and colleagues showed in 2017 that people who ask more questions are liked more. Follow-up …
People spot lies 54 percent of the time. A coin flip gets 50.In 2006 Bond and DePaulo pooled some 206 studies with 24,483 judges. On average they were right 54 …
How to listen so someone feels understood.Active listening goes back to Carl Rogers and has three parts. First, full attention – phone away …
More witnesses, less help – usually.A 2011 meta-analysis of 105 studies confirms the bystander effect: in groups, everyone feels less …
Why experts are such poor explainers.In 1990 Elizabeth Newton had people tap out well-known songs on a table. The tappers estimated …
Why a tiny request sets up the big one.In 1966, Freedman and Fraser asked homeowners to put a huge “Drive Carefully” sign in their front …
How to voice criticism in four steps without attacking.Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication uses four steps: observation without judgement (“the …

Keep reading

This card belongs to the topic Mind & Everyday. Every card is short, cites a source and can be saved – due ones come back by themselves later.

About Doomlearn · Projects · Legal notice · Privacy · Terms