Tolerating milk as an adult is the exception, not the rule.
Worldwide, most people lose the ability to split lactose after weaning – that is the ancestral mammalian state. The variant rs4988235 in the MCM6 region keeps the lactase gene switched on. It is the derived, newer form and only reached appreciable frequencies in the last roughly 10,000 years.
Useful: It isn't intolerance that's the deviation – it's tolerance.
Source: en.wikipedia.org